in John 3:30, John the Baptizer says, “Christ must increase & I must decrease.”
I recently preached on this verse and God preached it to me!
(1) Here is the context of this great statement:
John the Baptizer had a popular ministry of proclaiming Christ but all of a sudden his audience started leaving his little flock of students in order to move over to Jesus congregation of pupils.
This upset some of John’s disciples, but not John because this was his entire purpose in ministry:
For Christ to increase and for him to decrease.
This statement is every ministers test of weather or not they are really serving Christ or serving themselves: can you decrease? Will you be okay if your congregation shrinks? Even more, will you rejoice when your congregation shrinks if it means that your people are going to another congregation where Christ is still proclaimed?
John just finished saying in v29 that his joy is complete just like the friend of the Bridegroom’s (the best man’s) joy is complete in seeing his friend the Bride-groom marry His bride.
In other words, John didn’t look at himself as somebody who “owned” his group of followers. They belonged to Christ, the Bridegroom. And John’s entire purpose was to see them grow closer to Christ, become united with Christ, and in that way, John’s greatest joy was to see Christ receiving His Bride, not himself receiving the crowds.
Can we say the same thing of ourselves? Do we delight in seeing people coming to Christ or coming through us to Christ. In our mind, though, we’re very delighted that they’re coming to us more that coming to Christ.
Sometimes our joy is in seeing Christ’s Bride come to us! But we like John aren’t betrothed to the Bride. God’s Church does not belong to us. Therefore, ministers and especially pastors ought to be okay with seeing their congregation moving and going elsewhere insofar as it means that they are following Christ.
We need to be very careful not to think that we as ministers are betrothed to our Church, no because it’s Christ’s Bride (This is called “ministry adultery”)!
And notice that John drew a line of distinction between his ministry and Christ’s ministry as Christ’s ministry would increase while His would decrease. And we must draw this line of distinction too so that we can say, “Christ must increase & I must decrease.”
(2) But I believe that this statement, “He must increase & I must decrease” goes beyond the context. This is a statement that speaks of our sanctification.
In other words, how do we become more holy like Christ? How do we conform into His image? How does Christ increase in our life? By us decreasing.
It is impossible for Christ to increase in our life while we increase too. Christ is not one to compete with us. He is God and Lord; we are not.
Yet we often want to say, “He must increase and I’ll increase too.” That’s not how it works!
While we decrease, Christ increases.
God will often take things away from us, health, money, security, job, relationships, etc…so that Christ will increase in our life. He will strip us of everything so that we find Jesus to be everything.
And this is no option because “Christ MUST increase & we MUST decrease!”
Now the question is weather or not we will submit to this.
This is for God to do and us to pray.
God will make us decrease, not us make ourselves decrease. John says, “I must decrease” not “I will make myself decrease.”
That’s God’s job to do and thank God that He does this graciously to us. But while God decreases our self confidence, He wants to replace it with Christ-esteem. When God decreases your physical health, He wants to make the glory of Christ increase.
This ought to be encouraging for you because it means that God will use every decreasing thing in your life for the increasing reputation of Christ upon your life. God will use every painful and diminishing success in your life for the increase of Christ in your life. And if you love Christ, then this will only, oddly enough, increase your joy!
We were made to find joy in seeing ourselves decrease and Christ increase!
As Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. 29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son,”
In other words, that is saying that when bad things happen to you and you decrease in happiness, God is working that for your good, but how? He’s working it for the increase of Christ in your life….”to be conformed to the image of His Son.”
We often think of God working all things for our good in a vague way. We think of good as maybe circumstances or as something like, “everything will work out in the end.” But Romans 8:28 is saying that God works all things for the good increase of Christ in your life. As Galatians 4:19 pictures, God puts us through contracting jolts of pain until Christ is formed in us.
We must decrease and Christ must increase. This is God’s model of sanctification upon our life and it is also God’s formula for joy.
Will you pray with me, “Christ MUST increase & I MUST decrease?” It’s a dangerous prayer to pray because God will answer it.